Hard to make teacher understanding!  

Author: Terry Wong on 10/26/2010 1:11:00 PM

 
   
  I tried to explain to my son's teacher that he had ADHD. it is very hard for him to pay
attention for the whole class. I enclosed some infromation for her. She called me back, said
I tried to acuse her , by look down at her professional knowledge. I said sorry, and the next
minute, she said" Your son is a grade 10, he shall pay better attention, I got a large class,
and he is bording me when I teach!" ( She is actually not understand ADHD at all!!) I got
hurt and I felt hurt!
 
 

[ 2 ] 回應: 作者: 瀟碧 日期 10/28/2010 12:50:00 AM

  Terry,

我猜妳就是景怡媽媽,我剛才先回應了妳另外那個訊息,等回頭想再回應這訊息時,才想到這封應該就是妳原先試著用英文寫的訊息。

妳的經驗確實會讓妳覺得受傷、難過的。那情況真的不好過、也不好受!
我記得我曾經用一句話來寫出我的感受:我們的孩子永遠是別人眼中的別人!
孩子好的時候,別人事不關己。孩子出狀況的時候,別人投以怪異的眼神。
我們不愛孩子,誰來愛呢?我們不欣賞孩子,誰來欣賞了?我們不鼓勵孩子,誰來鼓勵呢?

我在回應妳的另一個訊息中提到,可以試著和老師站在同一陣線上,不容易,但還是可做的。
建議妳上這個網站看看,他們有不少如何和老師的deal的方法。
http://chadd.org/
特別是在這一頁上,可以找到不少策略。
http://www.chadd.org/Content/CHADD/AboutCHADD/CHADDPublicPolicy/Education/default.htm

/ 瀟碧(阿丹媽媽)
 
 

[ 1 ] 回應: 作者: 瀟碧 日期 4/1/2011 5:42:00 PM

  (公告)
很抱歉,網路維護同工告知這一週網站遭到干擾,有些回應被誤消了。原先在這信息中的一些回應也受到影響。我目前正檢查有多少信息受到影響。
 
 
     
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